How can I get my child to share?

Sharing isn’t natural for young children—it’s a skill that grows through modeling and gentle guidance.

What to do, step by step:

1. Model sharing daily.
   Say, “Can I have a turn after you?” or “I’ll share my snack with you.”
   
2. Acknowledge feelings.
   “It’s hard to wait for a turn.” Naming the struggle builds empathy.
   
3. Set clear turn-taking routines.
   Use a timer: “When it beeps, it’s your turn.” Predictability builds trust.
   
4. Celebrate the effort.
   “You waited patiently—that was kind.” Positive feedback reinforces sharing.