Why does my child talk so loudly?

Volume reflects excitement—or stress. You can help them regulate it without shaming.

What to do, step by step:

1. Whisper.
   They’ll naturally match your tone.
   
2. Teach voice awareness.
   “That’s your inside voice; can you find it?”
   
3. Play the “quiet/loud game.”
   Practice volume control playfully.
   
4. Notice patterns.
   Loudness after school? That’s a decompression signal.
   
5. Praise quiet moments.
   “I love how calm your voice sounds right now.”