What’s the best way to handle sibling fights?
Sibling conflict is actually practice for real-life conflict skills. Your role is not to be a constant referee, but a calm coach who helps them[…]
Why does my child lie?
Lying usually comes from fear—fear of getting in trouble, disappointing you, or losing something they care about. Instead of focusing only on the lie, focus[…]
How can I help my shy child make friends?
Shyness is not something to “fix.” It’s a different way of warming up to the world. Your job is to respect their pace, support small[…]
What do I do when my child says ‘I hate you’?
Those words can cut deep, but they usually mean, “I’m overwhelmed and I don’t know how to say it.” When you respond calmly, you teach[…]
How can I get my child to clean up without nagging?
Most kids don’t naturally enjoy cleaning up. The trick is to turn it into something clear, short, and playful, instead of a long, angry lecture.[…]
My toddler throws tantrums nonstop — what should I do?
Tantrums are not your toddler trying to “control” you; they are your toddler’s brain saying, “This is too much for me.” The goal is not[…]
How do I stop yelling when I’m exhausted?
When you’re tired, stressed, and overwhelmed, yelling can feel automatic. But yelling usually comes from your nervous system being overloaded, not from you being a[…]
Why does my child always talk back?
Talking back is often a sign that a child feels powerless, overwhelmed, or unheard. Instead of seeing it as disrespect only, treat it as a[…]